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HSP... Your mindset matters… more than you think
When I first learned I was an empath and a highly sensitive person, it explained so much - but also left me overwhelmed. I believed my sensitivity meant life would always be harder for me. But what I’ve learned since then is that mindset matters just as much as energy. In this post, I share the shift that helped me - and my clients - go from drained and powerless to grounded and empowered.

Valerie
Aug 11, 20254 min read


Top Struggles of Highly Sensitive People (HSP) and how Coaching helps
Being highly sensitive can feel overwhelming, but coaching offers tailored support to help HSPs manage challenges like anxiety, toxic relationships, and overthinking - empowering them to thrive with confidence and balance.

Valerie
Jun 17, 20256 min read


Guide to embracing your authentic self
Being authentic enables us to remain true to ourselves and trust the choices we make. Authentic individuals do not let external influences dictate their decisions; instead, they forge their own paths, staying attuned to their desires and dislikes. Yet, as with many ideals, embodying authenticity is often easier said than done.

Valerie
Jan 21, 20255 min read


Compassion fatigue is no laughing matter!
For highly sensitive people and empaths, "compassion fatigue" is a very real thing, it is no laughing matter! It can show up in all sorts...

Valerie
Sep 17, 20245 min read


Burn-out, a real risk for Highly Sensitive People
Even if fatigue is a problem that affects almost all highly sensitive people, burn-out is on a whole other level and must be avoided.

Valerie
Jul 10, 20246 min read


Highly sensitive person and emotional flooding
“Emotional flood,” as the name suggests, is a sudden, intense wave of emotions that can completely overwhelm you mentally and emotionally,..

Valerie
Jan 8, 20245 min read


Highly sensitive people and the feeling of not being understood
One of the biggest problems with highly sensitive people is that people don't understand them. This is a subject that constantly comes up ..

Valerie
Dec 22, 20235 min read


The different phases when you learn that you are highly sensitive
The different phases when you learn that you are highly sensitive. I have just learned that I am highly sensitive... what now?

Valerie
Dec 15, 20233 min read


The Science behind Empathy
The science behind empathy shows that the brains of hypersensitive people and empaths are connected for other people.

Valerie
Nov 22, 20236 min read


The 11 signs of genuine empathy that can’t be faked
True empathy can’t be faked. It shows up in how someone listens, supports, and connects… consistently, quietly, and sincerely. This article reveals 11 unmistakable signs of real empathy, and how to tell the difference between those who care deeply and those who only pretend to.

Valerie Lavoisard
Oct 23, 202312 min read


Taming your High Sensitivity
Taming our high sensitivity… who doesn’t dream about it? Who doesn’t want to…? Not all the time of course, but we would certainly love it when it gets too overwhelming.

Valerie
Oct 22, 202311 min read


HSP introvert vs extrovert
HSP introvert vs extrovert: whatever your personality, introverted or extroverted, embrace your high sensitivity.

Valerie
Sep 18, 20235 min read


How to explain that you’re Highly Sensitive?
How to tell people around you that you’re Highly Sensitive?

Valerie
Sep 11, 20235 min read


The Dark Sides of HSP
Let’s take a look at the dark little sides of highly sensitive people. Surprised that we do have dark sides? Why should we? Many HSP carry shame for how they feel - but some also hide behind it. Sensitivity is not a free pass for victimhood, avoidance, or making excuses. This post is not here to coddle, but to wake you up. If you’re using “I’m just sensitive” to avoid growth, this message is for you.

Valerie
Aug 14, 202319 min read


Managing conflicts with your Highly Sensitive Person
What to do when you come into conflict with a highly sensitive person?

Valerie
May 1, 20239 min read


Highly Sensitive People and Sexuality
For highly sensitive people (HSP), sexuality is deeply nuanced and intense, shaped by heightened emotions and sensory perceptions. While this sensitivity can lead to profound intimacy, it may also amplify vulnerability and overthinking. HSPs thrive by understanding their needs, calming their minds, and embracing their unique ways of connecting. Sensitivity isn't a barrier; it's a path to deeply fulfilling intimacy when approached with awareness and care.

Valerie
Apr 24, 202310 min read


HSP : 15 big little struggles
Let's take inventory together of the few big little struggles that most highly sensitive people can experience, and relate with.

Valerie
Mar 27, 202310 min read


Impostor Syndrome: How to beat this bummer?
If the title of this article appealed to you, maybe it resonated with you and you are one of those many who suffer from impostor syndrome. Let's dive in in the whys and how to break free from it.

Valerie
Aug 16, 20228 min read


15 top characteristics of Highly Sensitive People
High sensitivity isn't a flaw. It's a profound way of experiencing the world. From emotional intensity and deep empathy to sensory overwhelm and intuitive thinking, being a highly sensitive person (HSP) comes with both challenges and hidden gifts. In this article, we explore 15 key signs to help you recognize if you are highly sensitive, understand how it affects your life, and why this unique trait might actually be your greatest strength.

Valerie
Feb 22, 202210 min read
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