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Red Flag of Narcissism - their Endless Victim Mentality
Narcissists are masters of playing the victim, twisting every situation so they’re always the wronged party. This red flag keeps you stuck in guilt, confusion, and endless drama - until you learn to see through the act.

Valerie
Sep 29, 20253 min read


Narcissist Emotional Immaturity: A Red Flag you can’t ignore
Narcissist emotional immaturity turns relationships into exhausting battles. From tantrums and blame-shifting to hypersensitivity to criticism, narcissists struggle to handle emotions like adults. Instead, their immaturity leaves you parenting their moods while your needs are ignored.

Valerie
Sep 15, 20255 min read


Red Flags of Narcissism - Rage and Anger
Narcissistic rage isn’t normal anger - it’s a high-drama, ego-protecting spectacle. From explosive tantrums to cold, punishing silences, it’s all about control. Learn how to spot it before you get burned.

Valerie
Sep 1, 20254 min read


What most empaths secretly carry
Many empaths wake up already carrying a weight they can't name,tired before the day begins, overwhelmed without reason. It's not weakness; it's sensitivity in a world that rarely makes space for it. This piece dives deep into the unspoken emotional labor empaths perform, the guilt they carry for setting boundaries, and the silent burnout that comes from absorbing what isn't theirs. Through the lens of Jungian psychology and energetic awareness, it offers a radical shift: deta

Valerie
Jul 20, 20255 min read


Why do HSP and empaths attract narcissists
Contrary to popular belief, highly sensitive people (HSP) and empaths are not magnets for narcissists. However, many HSPs and empaths struggle with setting firm personal boundaries. This can leave them vulnerable to narcissistic behavior and might make it feel like they’re attracting them.

Valerie
Jan 7, 20253 min read


HSP & Empaths in Relationships - 5 Sneaky Struggles
When it comes to HSP and empaths navigating relationships… I could probably write a 100-point list here. But who has time for that?...

Valerie
Dec 17, 20246 min read


15 unique (and powerful) traits of an empath
If you ask people around you, what do they understand or how do they define the word empath, a large majority will answer you: “Someone who can read minds? A person who has paranormal abilities... a medium, something like that...? or "Never heard that word, no idea!" The thing is, with all of these false assumptions and preconceptions, we empaths sometimes think there is something wrong with us. So, of course, the opinion and judgment of others doesn't really help us.

Valerie
Feb 22, 20248 min read


The 11 signs of genuine empathy that can’t be faked
True empathy can’t be faked. It shows up in how someone listens, supports, and connects… consistently, quietly, and sincerely. This article reveals 11 unmistakable signs of real empathy, and how to tell the difference between those who care deeply and those who only pretend to.

Valerie Lavoisard
Oct 23, 202312 min read


Empaths : 10 ways to shut down a narcissist.
When I created this community, I didn't think I would be led to talk about those who, unfortunately, punctuate our lives: the narcissists

Valerie
May 11, 202311 min read
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